Comments on: SWIIIIIITCH!

By: Sasha Two Pistols

Sasha Two Pistols — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 19:20:06 +0000

I hear you. It’s definitely true that us as women are territorial creatures. I will not deny that, so that’s why I’m prone to believe mostly that this is more acceptable in the male arena than the female–although I guess Jazmine’s song proves otherwise.

But I do find it interesting as you said that men tend to get all riled up if they learned their girl might have gotten down with someone they either didn’t like or knew before them. But if a friend is trying to holla at chick after the love is gone, they kind of brush it off like “I mean if you like her”.

Things that make you go hmmmm….

I think we need to compile a list of all the things that men/women differ on–especially in terms of what’s acceptable or what’s not acceptable in the eyes of both sexes.

By: Durrrty Diana

Durrrty Diana — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 15:57:26 +0000

Yeah Matt. Thanks for visiting the page homie.

By: Durrrty Diana

Durrrty Diana — Thu, 02 Apr 2009 15:55:23 +0000

*flag*
I’m definitely opposed to this. It’s a lost friendship in the making. For me, I know I’m the jealous type. I monitor it well, but, I don’t like people in my business, and I don’t like people on my man (ex or not). And like Mac T said, there ARE plenty of fish in the sea, so can’t you find someone I haven’t already conquered to spend your free time with? Geez.
*penalty on the offense*
But, if my home girl was truly interested in starting a serious relationship with someone from MY past, I would hope she’d have the decency to tell me about it BEFOREHAND, and I’d just have to be a grown A woman and overlook it. It’s some scandalous skeezas out there, but I hope none of them are in my clan and will be upfront. But I have taken note of men’s propensity to overlook this (or pretend to). Which is an interesting study in and of itself. How come the idea of a chick sleeping with someone before you makes you ill, but the idea of your homeboy banging her during and/or afterwards doesn’t seem to phase you?

By: Sasha Two Pistols

Sasha Two Pistols — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 12:56:50 +0000

I hear you, but I also think there is an inherent difference with how men would handle this situation as opposed to women. Although, I guess in the song Jazmine might be the exception. But yeah it would definitely raise a red flag though if (a) your friend tries to get with someoene you had a “real” long-term relationship with; and (b) it will make you think–so has this person been pining after my boo this whole time?

Things that make you go “hmmmm”.

By: Sasha Two Pistols

Sasha Two Pistols — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 12:53:50 +0000

Hey we appreciate the love.

By: matt

matt — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 17:18:52 +0000

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By: Macaroni Tony

Macaroni Tony — Tue, 31 Mar 2009 16:05:21 +0000

This is where man-training comes in. The team sports concept is definitely at play because guys realize its not a competition, but rather a group effort to reach the “end zone”. If I was messing with a chick, and she liked my friend more – I’d have no problem “taking less snaps”, so my friend can shine. There’s plenty of women out there and I’m sure they’d reciprocate at some point, so we’d both be holding up the Lombardi!

Now if it was a situation where they wanted to seriously date one of my exes, I still would probably be ambivalent, but two things would perplex me:
1.) Why my friend would welcome sloppy seconds
2.) What mindstate is my friend in where he would entertain a “Choosy Susie”?

But just out of respect as men, I hope they would come to me for clearance beforehand.